
Jewish - The Matzah Ball (2021) by Jean Meltzer is especially helpful for those
who wish to learn more about everyday life in the Ashkenazi Yiddish speaking Jewish
community. About 80 percent of Jewish people today are Ashkenazim. Matzah Ball is a
romance novel about a Jewish woman who writes Christmas romance novels. The
author attended rabbinical school before contracting a chronic illness. She used the
most common trope in romance novels. Two people, who at first don’t like each other,
overcome their differences by solving a problem. In so doing, they discover they are
soul mates, fall in love, and marry. The author adds a Jewish twist to this familiar plot
line, that of bashert. This concept literally means destiny, but in practice means much
more. Your other half exists to make you better. They have character traits you lack.
They challenge you, as a couple, to become better people.
This witty well-crafted book is filled with insights into Jewish tradition. A recurrent
theme is “God only works through broken vessels” (p. 133) from the Midrash, a book of
Biblical commentary. An old Jewish saying, “Love is nice but tastes better with bread”
brings a chuckle to the reader (p. 133). Jean Meltzer infuses her life experiences into
every page of this novel. The two irresistible main characters in the book, Rachel and
Jacob, struggle to attain wisdom as they overcome their fears of abandonment, pride,
and self-doubt. Jacob, the archetypical male epitome of strength and caring expressed
it in a saying he learned in a Catholic school, “Everything in life is designed to lead us to
a higher purpose” (p. 306). The researchers recommend this book as a highly
entertaining read and as an example of how to write a romance novel. This novel is
authentic, steeped in Jewish values and history. People familiar with Jewish culture will
find lots of familiar terms. Those who lack such background may need to look up some
Hebrew and Yiddish terms, but in so doing will receive a rich reward.
Muslim - “What do you see when you think of me,” asks Ayesha, a young Islamic
woman at a poetry slam in Uzma Jalaluddin’s Ayesha At Last (2018). She wears a
purple hair hijab, blue button-down blouse, blazer, and black pants. Watching her
intently is Khalid, a young man with a long beard, flowing white robe, and skullcap. He is
so conservative he will not shake a woman’s hand. After losing his job because of
discrimination, Khalid asked his Imam for advice. The head of the Muslim community
questioned Khalid, “What is your intent in wearing traditional clothing?”
While mulling over his answer, Khalid became involved with Ayesha’s female
cousin, Hafsa. She has over 100 marriage proposals. For some reason, Hafsa’s mother
paired Khalid up with Hafsa in an arranged marriage. Surprising everybody, she
accepted. But then she ran away with a man who took pornographic pictures of her.
This scuttled the proposed marriage with Khalid. Subsequently, Hafsa married an
entirely different man. Free of his previous obligations, Khalid returns to Ayesha. They
agreed to marry in a year. This crazy and complex plot is really very simple: girl gets
boy, girl loses boy, girl gets boy. It does, however, accurately portray tensions between
various sects and cultural groups within a Muslim community.
Hindu – Chetan Bhgat’s 2 States (2009) gives readers a new twist on a familiar
romance plot line. Only this time, it is boy meets girl, they fall in love, but their parents
do not get along and will not approve their marriage. His mother is from Punjabi in the
North of India. Her mother and father are Tamil from the South of India. Vast differences
in language and culture separate the two sets of parents. Hard work on the part of the