
4. What was your biggest
takeaway from the day?
The biggest takeaway
from the day is that there is
such potential with all the
wonderful parishioners in the
diocese. It was wonderful to
see and be a part of the energy
in the conversations that were
happening. There is a desire,
or spark if you will, to meet
the challenge that Bishop
Bergie, our shepherd, has
given us. His address was very inspirational and you could
hear the pride in his voice as he spoke of the diocese and the
possibilities as we journey for the future.
5. Did you feel ‘hearts on re’ that was talked about
during the day?
I did experience hearts being set on re from the
enthusiasm I witnessed and the feeling I felt while listening
to the speakers, particularly Bishop Bergie. He stated that we
could be the best diocese and I believe we can.
There was a feeling of excitement, as though we were
on the cusp of a revolutionary transformation. The wood had
been collected and a spark has lit the ame. It is now time
to fan the ame to spread out and set hearts on re in the
diocese. Joining our hearts and hands in giving praise and
glory to God. I was thrilled to be a part of a day of fellowship
and look forward to participating in what is yet to come.
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Vineyard reached out to several Leadership Day attendees
for reaction to the session. The responses below are from Betty
Colaneri, member of the Diocesan Pastoral Council and a parishioner
of Our Lady of the Scapular, Niagara Falls.
1. What did you think about the Parish Leadership Day?
I found the Leadership Day wonderful! It was so uplifting
to see parishioners from all over the diocese coming together
for the common good and goal of the diocese. These are
dedicated parishioners that are concerned for the future of
the diocese.
The speakers were amazing at explaining what we
presently have, where we can strive to be and the steps of
how we can get there.
2. What discussion group were you in? How was it
helpful?
I was in the service group. We were able to break out
into smaller groups and share our experiences and thoughts
on a very important part of our ministry which is service.
Fr. Chris Gillen, pastor, St. Martin, Smithville, and dean of
the Haldimand Deanery, guided us through a wonderful
workshop where he shared his thoughts on the importance of
ministry through service as well as giving us the opportunity
to share ideas with each other that we will be able to bring
back to parishes to discuss and implement.
3. The diocese seems to be asking a great deal of its
parishes. Are they up to it?
I don’t think it is a lot to ask of the parishes. I believe
we are all up to the challenge of doing what it takes to make
the diocese a thriving, enthusiastic and passionate one that
is ready to set hearts on re. As the saying goes, ‘team work
makes the dream work’. It is achievable if we work together.
We are a chosen people that Jesus has called for ministry
and with him all things are possible. “God does not call the
ParticiPants comment on leadershiP day
Betty Colaneri
by JOE BARKOVICH
Below are the comments of attendees from various
parishes across the diocese who agreed to short interviews
while the day was in progress.
Parishioner Alex Felicetti, St. Thomas More, Niagara
Falls, took part in the evangelization workshop. Asked
about his biggest takeaway he replied, “Evangelization
is not a one-time thing, it can take years and years.
Evangelization is a multi-step process; just because you go
to church doesn’t mean you’ve been evangelized,” he said.
A science teacher at St. Michael Catholic High School,
Niagara Falls, Felicetti agreed parishes are dealing with a
big ask by the diocese but thinks they are up to it.
For Gilles Deslauriers, a parishioner at Sacré-Coeur,
Welland, speakers at the session were riveting. “I found
them inspiring and interesting and to some degree
challenging. And I must say, I think Bishop Bergie did a
bang-up job. He was so passionate. I think he was really
on re.”
Sarah Nannarone, St. Michael, Dunnville, found the
speakers’ presentations helpful, especially the talk about
why people don’t attend church and reasons why they
leave the church. While she described her parish as warm
and welcoming, a parish where ‘nobody should feel left
out’, she is saddened by poor attendance. She was at a loss
to explain why so few people attend regularly. Reasons
that were cited during the presentations will be food for
thought “I try again and again (to convince people to
attend) and then eventually they don’t want to talk to me,”
she said.
Sarah said her children, a daughter 10 and son 8, attend
Mass regularly. “My daughter is on re,” she said proudly,
“she just loves God, she’s a God person.”
Maria Dusson, St. Ann, Niagara Falls, enjoyed listening
to the speakers and taking part in the group discussion.
“It’s good to talk about things you can be doing better,”
she said.
Dusson, 19, attends St. Michael Catholic High School,
Niagara Falls. She helps with the Children’s Liturgy at her
parish. She nds this ministry meaningful because, “I like
to talk with little kids. It not only gives me the opportunity
to oer them knowledge of Catholic beliefs, but also the
opportunity for them to understand why we do those
things and the meaning of it,” she said.
Parishioners came together for the common good
qualied. He qualies those
he calls.” (Exodus 4)