
idea, one that might well be worth exploring further provided that it genuinely
meets both coaches’ needs. It would mean offering a more comprehensive
coaching service to clients, one that encompasses two specialisms instead of just
one, and should provide opportunities to learn from one another’s skill sets,
experience and knowledge. However, it will also mean being open with one
another about which clients each of you is currently working with, which clients
you are currently selling and marketing to and what other sales activities you
have planned. That’s all fine provided that the other coach respects the
boundaries of your client relationships and vice versa, and working together in
this way could be stimulating and rewarding for you both. But what if the coach
making the suggestion has hit a rough patch, has lost confidence in his ability to
sell and market, and is looking for another coach to bail him out and find him
business? If this coach comes out and admits his problems that’s one thing. But, if
he doesn’t, and therefore his offer of mutual selling and marketing is, to some
extent, disingenuous, that could be quite another thing altogether. Of course,
maybe working with a like-minded and supportive person is just what this coach
needs to help him find his feet again. But if he doesn’t at least describe some of his
issues to the other coach, upfront and early on, then the second coach will be
entering into a business relationship that might not deliver the promised joint
selling and joint marketing activities, but will only result in him carrying his
new colleague. Once more, either of these two outcomes could ensue, and only by
putting your toe in the water will you get to know the other coach well enough to
know whether or not working with him in this way will prove to be a good idea.
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Avoiding boundary conflicts
The politics of peer coaching relationships is complex and on many occasions coaches
will establish mutually supportive and satisfactory working relationships with one
another. They learn from each other, enjoy contact with one another and are able to
add something to each other’s businesses through their conversations. However, the
possibility for boundary conflicts also exists and it’s worth stepping back from offers
to co-market, co-sell or co-deliver until you really know who you are dealing with
and are sure that they work with similar values and in similar ways to you.
Networking with coaches who have a sufficiently different specialism to yours will
mean that some of the potential boundary conflicts are obviated. This could be a less
tricky way forward initially than networking with coaches who work with similar
clients or in the same niche as you, and could provide you with contacts to whom you
can refer your clients should they also want to work with a coach outside of your area
of competence. However, the really important issues are the integrity, openness and
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