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Dr. Constable's Notes on Deuteronomy
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woman to remarry. He also believed that the improper behavior for which
divorce was allowed, was behavior that fundamentally violated the essence
of the marriage covenant.1
Jesus taught His disciples not to divorce (Matt. 19:1-12; Mark 10:1-12).
Matthew included Jesus' clarification of the condition for divorce that God
permitted (Matt. 19:9; cf. Deut. 24:1), but Mark did not. Paul restated
Jesus' point (1 Cor. 7:10-11), and added that a believing spouse need not
remain with an unbelieving mate if the unbeliever departs (i.e., divorces; 1
Cor. 7:12-16). After a divorce, he encouraged remarriage to the former
spouse, or else remaining single (1 Cor. 7:11).2
In Israel, the will of God was the same as national law. This is not true in
the United States or anywhere else today. Some Christians think that
because their government permits divorce for various reasons, God also
permits it for those same reasons. This is incorrect. It is important that we
distinguish between what God permits and what our national laws permit.
Furthermore, we need to remember that what God permitted under the Old
Covenant, and what He permits under the New Covenant, are not
necessarily what He desires (i.e., His standards, His directive will). Malachi
2:16 indicates God's standard, His ideal for marriage, namely, no divorce.
Nevertheless, God permitted divorce because of the hardness of people's
hearts (Matt. 19:8; cf. 1 Cor. 7). Some of the laws under the Old Covenant
clarified the limits of what God permitted, even though they fell short of
His standard. This is similar to how we live within our families. Parents have
1Sprinkle, pp. 529-32 and 546-47.
2Some of the best writings on marriage, divorce, and remarriage are these: For the view
that God permitted divorce and remarriage for immorality and desertion, see John Murray,
Divorce
(scholarly); Jay E. Adams,
Marriage, Divorce and Remarriage
(popular); and Tim
Crater, "Bill Gothard's View of the Exception Clause,"
Journal of Pastoral Practice
4
(1980):5-10 (popular). For the view that God permitted divorce and remarriage for
unlawful marriages, as the Mosaic Law specified unlawful marriages, see Joseph A.
Fitzmyer, "The Matthean Divorce Texts and Some New Palestinian Evidence,"
Theological
Studies
37:2 (June 1976):197-226 (scholarly); J. Carl Laney,
The Divorce Myth
(popular);
and Ryrie,
You Mean …
, pp. 45-56 (popular). For the view that God permitted divorce and
remarriage in Israel for unfaithfulness during the betrothal period, see Abel Isaksson,
"Marriage and Ministry in the New Temple," pp. 7-152 (scholarly); and Mark Geldard,
"Jesus' Teaching on Divorce,"
Churchman
92 (1978):134-43 (popular). For the view that
God permitted divorce but not remarriage, see William A. Heth and Gordon J. Wenham,
Jesus and Divorce
(scholarly). A helpful general resource is James B. Hurley,
Man and
Woman in Biblical Perspective
.