
8the new testament challengeBackstaGe Pass
That’s what sacrificial leaders do, those who are seeking the flourishing and liberation of
those they lead. A true leader has a different kind of influence and it’s one that comes
underneath others to serve them, to seek their wellbeing, and to blow wind into their
sails. This is true at work, in our homes, or wherever we lead.
It’s also true in a spiritual sense. We can be liberating leaders. We can give up our seat
because, in Jesus’ club, there are plenty to go around.
James, in his epistle, picks up this “WHOEVER” theme: ...Remember this: Whoever turns
a sinner from the error of their way will save them from death and cover over a multitude
of sins. James 5:20
Now, this verse has been used with great malpractice over the years. We throw our
Bibles at people, point the finger, and try to guilt someone into the kingdom of
God as if we’ve never heard of the PUSH/PULL theory. But get this: when you come
alongside someone in error and...give up your seat. When you serve someone, love
someone unconditionally, and yes, lovingly reflect back your heart for them, suddenly
that backstage pass will become irresistible. It will become like the party they’ve been
searching for their entire lives.
(Pastor note: insert your own story if you’d like)
There’s a friend of mine named Andy. Andy grew up in my hometown and in church like
many of us. But his church experience didn’t quell his hunger, capture his imagination,
nor make sense of all the confusion inside him. So he began to seek other backstage
passes, got into clubs that led to some of the darkest and twisted places one could
imagine. Ultimately, these backstage passes led to a permanent residence in a way of
living and with a community of other club dwellers. He would say now that it was such
a dark and despairing time in his life, but then he would say that he was finally free and
doing what he wanted.
But his praying mom never judged and never gave up.
He told me that one day his mom just shared seven simple words that changed his life.
She said, “Andy...I wanted so much more for you.”
Those words first angered him, then they compelled him, then broke through. And it
was then that he took Jesus’ backstage pass. Not the Sunday school pass that he grew
up on, but the pass that led Andy into an entirely new life; into a party that blew his
mind; into a truly loving community of people and into a club that he had been
searching for all of his life.
Andy joined the same club that Matthew closed down his tax office for; the same club
that Peter dropped his nets to join; the same club that prompted Zacchaeus to empty
out his bank account; the same club where Mary Magdalene finally heard her name; the
same club where the outcasted Samaritan woman found her truest purpose; and the
same club that I entered when, as a five year old boy, knelt on my knees beside my father